FIX GPT OSS (#1165)

## Motivation

Adds several unmerged fixes for GPT OSS.
Also adds GPT OSS 20B MXFP4 Q8 instead of Q4 for numerical stability (as
this is unstable for MLX LM too)
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## Test Plan

### Manual Testing
Manually tested. No further gibberish responses.

### Automated Testing
Ran EXO Bench - pipeline, tensor and single node work on both 20B and
120B models

src/exo/shared/models/model_cards.py

@@ -425,15 +425,15 @@ MODEL_CARDS: dict[str, ModelCard] = {
             supports_tensor=True,
         ),
     ),
-    "gpt-oss-20b-4bit": ModelCard(
-        short_id="gpt-oss-20b-4bit",
-        model_id=ModelId("mlx-community/gpt-oss-20b-MXFP4-Q4"),
-        name="GPT-OSS 20B (MXFP4-Q4, MLX)",
-        description="""OpenAI's GPT-OSS 20B is a medium-sized MoE model for lower-latency and local or specialized use cases; this MLX variant uses MXFP4 4-bit quantization.""",
+    "gpt-oss-20b-MXFP4-Q8": ModelCard(
+        short_id="gpt-oss-20b-MXFP4-Q8",
+        model_id=ModelId("mlx-community/gpt-oss-20b-MXFP4-Q8"),
+        name="GPT-OSS 20B (MXFP4-Q8, MLX)",
+        description="""OpenAI's GPT-OSS 20B is a medium-sized MoE model for lower-latency and local or specialized use cases; this variant is a 4-bit MLX conversion for Apple Silicon.""",
         tags=[],
         metadata=ModelMetadata(
-            model_id=ModelId("mlx-community/gpt-oss-20b-MXFP4-Q4"),
-            pretty_name="GPT-OSS 20B (MXFP4-Q4, MLX)",
+            model_id=ModelId("mlx-community/gpt-oss-20b-MXFP4-Q8"),
+            pretty_name="GPT-OSS 20B (MXFP4-Q8, MLX)",
             storage_size=Memory.from_kb(11_744_051),
             n_layers=24,
             hidden_size=2880,

src/exo/worker/engines/mlx/utils_mlx.py

@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ except ImportError:
 
 from mlx_lm.models.cache import KVCache, QuantizedKVCache, RotatingKVCache
 from mlx_lm.models.deepseek_v3 import DeepseekV3Model
+from mlx_lm.models.gpt_oss import Model as GptOssModel
 from mlx_lm.tokenizer_utils import TokenizerWrapper
 
 from exo.worker.engines.mlx.constants import (
@@ -396,6 +397,11 @@ def make_kv_cache(
 ) -> list[KVCache | RotatingKVCache | QuantizedKVCache]:
     assert hasattr(model, "layers")
 
+    # TODO: Do this for all models
+    if hasattr(model, "make_cache") and isinstance(model, GptOssModel):
+        logger.info("Using MLX LM's make cache")
+        return model.make_cache()  # type: ignore
+
     if max_kv_size is None:
         if KV_CACHE_BITS is None:
             logger.info("Using default KV cache")